the situationship chronicles

r/relationships · Posted by u/gimmeadvice8225 20 minutes ago.

I need advice

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Hi. I am new here. How do I use this app?

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r/relationships · Posted by u/gimmeadvice8225 20 minutes ago.

I need advice

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Hi. I am new here. How do I use this app?

Edit: Thanks for the help. I will figure it out on my own.

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r/relationships · Posted by u/gimmeadvice8225 8 hours ago.

My [25M] hook up [25M] has a girlfriend

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We have been hooking up for a while now. I always think there is no strings attached. But seeing him with her makes me sick. And she is hot also. He has very good taste, yes. But I still hate her. I recently find out he has a girlfriend and it hurts that he does not tell me first. The last time we hook up, he leave very fast after I call him by his name. It did not mean anything. He overreact. He looks happy. Yes. Please give me advice or breakup potion. (I copy this format from someone else. I hope is correct.)

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Floatingspiriit136 · 3 hours ago

Have you considered confessing how you feel?

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Pornesaianparapio · 1 hour ago

I am sorry OP. Sounds like you are hurt. I have been in a situationship like this too. Group hug for both of us. Just know you cannot confess to him. It would only hurt you and he clearly does not like you if he did not even tell you he was ending things. I do think you have feelings though, because you called him by his name. I assume that is not something you usually do. If it helps, I will curse him for you.

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r/relationships · Posted by u/gimmeadvice8225 20 minutes ago.

My [25M] hook up [25M] went on a date with his girlfriend

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Hello. I need advice how to break my phone. His smile looks very forced. I hate watching TV now because I see her everywhere. Also news.

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r/relationships · Posted by u/gimmeadvice8225 10 minutes ago.

Update I think

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I do not know if I update or make new post. Sorry if wrong. I saw them again last night. Not in person. On screen. He look miserable. People say they are happy couple but I do not see it. I know his face very well. This app is like diary now. Is okay.

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r/relationships · Posted by u/gimmeadvice8225 40 minutes ago.

I miss him

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I miss him today. This is stupid because we are adults and busy. We haven’t seen each other in a while. I am just writing here because I cannot text him.

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r/relationships · Posted by u/gimmeadvice8225 16 hours ago.

How to get over my [25M] 9 year hook up [25M]

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He got a girlfriend recently and they are not breaking up. I try everything. I sleep with other girls and also dudes but nothing help. We have known each other for nine years and everything was good. We meet. We hook up. You know how it is. Until I ruin it by saying his name and then he has girlfriend. I wish I can go back 9 years ago when we fucked for the first time, so i don’t do it. I was horny, though. So maybe I would have done it. I have nobody to tell this because nobody know I am bi, so I am here. I just thought we can keep doing this forever, you know. I think I have feelings little bit. Not love. Just something. Yesterday we see each other in person at work but for first time we do not give each other room number. I wink to make joke but he look away. Maybe he hate me now. I really want to get over him because he deserve to be happy too. Better with me, but nothing to do. He can stay with sexy girl and I suffer. Please give advice.

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what_even_is_life · 14 hours ago

Nine years?????

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therapized · 14 hours ago

OP that is not a hook up. That is a long term situationship

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throwawayplshelp · 13 hours ago

How often do you even see this man?

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mathbutmakeittrauma · 12 hours ago

You said you ruined it by saying his name. What does that mean?

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just_here_4cats · 10 hours ago

Why are you meeting him at work? Are you coworkers?

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emotionalsupportrat · 7 hours ago

Nine years. You sleep together. You travel together. You share room number. You’re sad because he has a girlfriend. You are emotionally attached. That was a relationship

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user443920 · 5 hours ago

You want him to be happy but only with you. That is selfish

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hotmesscentral · 4 hours ago

Why do you keep calling her sexy? Are you sure you’re gay?

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been_there_regret · 3 hours ago

OP please read your post again but pretend someone else wrote it.

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r/relationships · Posted by u/gimmeadvice8225 5 hours ago.

How to get over my [25M] 9 year hook up [25M] (Clarification because many people are misunderstanding)

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This was my last post [🔗:How to get over my [25M] 9 year hook up [25M]] I see many comments and I think people misunderstood what I mean. It is not nine years continuous. We do not live together. We do not date. We do not talk every day. We text like six days of the week. Sometimes we do not see each other for long time. Months. We only meet when we are in same city. Maybe four times in year. Sometimes more. Sometimes less. This is why I say hook up. It is not relationship. Also I do not want steal him from his sexy girlfriend. I respect relationship. I am just sad. Please stop say I am in love. This is dramatic. I have feelings little bit. Is different thing. I just want advice how to move on. Not judgement.

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youre_not_ready · 4 hours ago

Four times a year for nine years is still a relationship.

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define_me290 · 3 hours ago

OP that is still continuous. Time does not reset

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queerchaos99 · 2 hours ago

You only fuck when you are in the same city. That sounds planned.

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longtermshortterm · 1 hour ago

You’re emotionally attached and jealous. that’s love.

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exhaustedalway · 50 minutes ago

OP, why are you fighting everyone giving advice?

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heartkyu · 35 minutes ago

I have a question. What do you do for work that you are always in the same cities 4 times a year?

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chronically_confused · 10 minutes ago

You sound like a situationship final boss.

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nine YEARS?????

“we do not usually say first names” took me OUT

this is not a situationship this is a hostage situation

this sounds like a horrible movie

he said four times a year like that makes it better

i wish someone would be obsessed with me for 9 yrs

context: OP is a man who has been hooking up with his coworker for nine years, got upset when coworker got a girlfriend, insists this is normal adult behavior

he keeps saying “busy adults” like sir you are 25

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maybe there’s advice here?

Lily @lily1221

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Reddit finds @cinematichomos

maybe there’s advice here?

bestie log off

welcome to twitter king

did you really have a 9 year situationship?

so you saw him everyday for 9 year straight, wow

@lily1221
Replying to @unimportent

Reddit finds @cinematichomos

sir you posted it!! What did you expect CTFU

this is cinema actually

he is fighting for his life in the replies

i hate reddit so much

@lily1221
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Lily @lily1221

ok wait now i feel bad stop making fun of him guys

can i call you the nine years guy?

idg why were they coworkers who only see each other in the same cities 🤔

this feels sports coded idk

Reddit finds @cinematichomos

can you update us at least?

Elen is iconik @streamblueparadise

LILY THIS IS NOT YOUR SIGN

this is act two and it’s getting interesting

girl GO CONFESS RIGHT NOW

do NOT go back oh my god

@higherocona
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@lily1221
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@higherocona
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@lily1221
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Lily @lily1221

so you didn’t pray for this huh

People break up all time. Im happy but is life.

he is so serious im obsessed

maybe log off and talk to him about your feelings now lily?

@lily1221
Replying to @kevinmoontbz

NO❤️

absolutely not

to do WHAT? to fuck some more?????

It is just cottage. you’ve never gone to one?

@loofarha
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@lily1221
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@parasocialpanic
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@lily1221
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Lily @lily1221

YOU”VE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME

WE ARE GOING TO THE COTTAGE

@lily1221
Replying to @loofarha

maybe he got killed in cottage forest. Idk.

omgh plot twist

@slowdrewburn45
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@tarzannchaewon
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@tarzannender
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did you tell him you’ve been yearning for him?

THE SUSPENSE TELL US NOW😭😭

@lisabooktok
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@jokekingalwab
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WHO USES LOVERS sounds gross

ah you sound like my boyfriend

@parasocialpanic
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@keirnaq
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Lily @lily1221

Lily @lily1221

NO THIS IS NOT YOUR SIGN

@lilynd10yrlover
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@lily1221
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Take one in a dim-light car. You can frame it. Use a large frame and give it to him on birthday. something like this:

Good idea

OOMF I SEE WHAT YOU DID THERE

the haobinfication of this random couple, yes

Lily @lily1221

OH MY GOD did we help a celebrity get a boyfriend?

Lily @lily1221

HOLLANOV?

no fucking way!!

i doubt it but i see where you’re coming from

look what i found

athlete can be anything and he didn’t say yes

Elisa @sushindsmoke